Wedding planning is coming along quite nicely. There is a Bridal Show at the fair grounds this coming Sunday, and I've been trying to get all of my stuff booked and scheduled for my date before everyone else gets the same ideas. I don't want to be left trying to figure out how I'm going to make things work. So many of the things that need to get done are getting crossed of my list. It's very relieving. I am enjoying the reduced stress.
Hunter and I are going to go get engagement pictures done, we just have to figure out when... I am going to be short on available time once the semester starts in February. I'm sure we'll figure it out.
All this planning stuff can get pretty stressful. I feel like I have to fight everybody just to have my wedding be what I would like it to be, instead of what everyone else wants it to be. My mother is trying to plan her own wedding and have me act it out... which makes me particularly upset because she's had two weddings and I will, God willing, only have one. I am finding that I have to fight the florist about how many flowers I need, and that I don't actually need huge flower center pieces on the tables... Family is the worst, though, because they think that they are entitled to have their opinion taken into very serious consideration... For my part, I don't care what they think. If they have a good suggestion or idea, I might use it, but this wedding is mine and Hunter's and it should feel like us. Trying to convince everyone else of that is a real chore.....
Here's to hoping that it all gets easier as things get taken care of, and here's to hoping that no one decides that they will disregard what Hunter and I say and do their own thing.
--as always
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